to forgive oneself

when people ask for forgiveness, they are healing themselves from the burden of a sin. if one person does one thing but knows it is wrong, against another human being, they are not only hurting the other person, more singifiniacally hurting oneself. It is as sef destructive pattern so that the person that hurts can confirm for itself that it is a bad person, to hurt oneself, to hate oneself, destroy oneself. It is because this person can\t see itself as worthy of love, but the truth is, everybody is worthy of love. everybody has a chance to love. that is the most beautiful thing in nature, we can all return to love. to forgive ourselves is the first step to love ourselves. Because we have to forgive how we have treated our bodies and mostly our thoughts, oh darling you have been hard on yourself when you have anxiety, and guilt. we must love ourselves, forgive us. and after that, stop hurting each other, stop hurting yourself, stop doing things that you have to apologize for, just love yourself unapologetically. To hurt otherts is to hurt oneself. to forgive onself is to forgive others. to let someone hate you and tear you down and still stand proud of yourself, still loving yourself no matter how other people treat you, to put your own value in yourself, that is power, and that is self love. dont let anyone take away your inner fire, your strength and beauty. Believe in yourself my darling! and always forgive yourself, and if others cant forgive you, still forgive yourself baby.

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